Gambling should be entertainment — a fun activity you enjoy within your means, not a source of stress, debt, or harm. Unfortunately, for some people, gambling can become problematic. This guide covers practical strategies for staying in control, recognising warning signs, and finding help when it's needed.
Whether you're a casual player who enjoys the occasional bonus or someone who plays regularly, responsible gambling practices help ensure that gaming remains a positive part of your life.
Setting Financial Limits
The foundation of responsible gambling is financial control. Before you play, decide how much you can afford to lose — not how much you hope to win. Here's a practical framework:
Deposit Limits
Most regulated online casinos allow you to set daily, weekly, or monthly deposit limits. Once you hit the limit, you physically cannot deposit more until the next period. Set these limits when you create your account — before you start playing and before emotions can influence the decision.
A good rule of thumb: your gambling budget should come from your entertainment/discretionary spending, never from money earmarked for rent, bills, food, or savings.
Loss Limits
In addition to deposit limits, many casinos offer loss limits that cap how much you can lose in a given period. This is a useful backstop even if your deposit limit is higher.
Session Time Limits
It's easy to lose track of time while gambling. Set a timer on your phone, or use the casino's built-in session time limit feature. Many casinos now show you how long you've been playing and remind you to take breaks at regular intervals.
The Budget You Can Afford to Lose
Think of your gambling budget the same way you'd think about money spent on a cinema ticket, a meal out, or a concert. It's the cost of entertainment. If losing that amount would cause financial stress, it's too much.
Recognising Warning Signs
Problem gambling often develops gradually. It's important to regularly check in with yourself (or someone you trust) and honestly assess your relationship with gambling. Warning signs include:
- Chasing losses: Continuing to play specifically to win back money you've lost
- Spending beyond your means: Using money intended for essential expenses
- Borrowing to gamble: Taking loans, using credit cards, or borrowing from friends/family to fund gambling
- Neglecting responsibilities: Missing work, social commitments, or family obligations due to gambling
- Hiding gambling behaviour: Lying to others about how much time or money you spend gambling
- Mood changes: Feeling anxious, irritable, or depressed when not gambling, or when trying to cut back
- Increasing stakes: Needing to bet larger amounts to feel the same excitement
- Inability to stop: Repeatedly trying to cut back or quit but being unable to
If you recognise any of these signs in yourself or someone you know, it's important to seek help. There's no shame in it — problem gambling is a recognised condition with effective treatments.
Practical Tips for Staying in Control
- Never gamble when emotional. Don't play when you're upset, stressed, drunk, or trying to escape from problems. These states impair judgment and increase the risk of reckless decisions.
- Don't chase losses. This is the single most important rule. If you're on a losing streak, stop. Walk away. The odds don't change because you've been losing — there's no "due for a win."
- Take regular breaks. Step away from the screen regularly. Make a cup of tea. Go for a walk. Breaks help you maintain perspective.
- Keep gambling social. Gambling alone, especially late at night, can be isolating and increase risk. Where possible, treat it as a social activity.
- Use casino tools. Deposit limits, loss limits, session reminders, reality checks — these exist for a reason. Use them all.
- Track your spending. Keep a record of deposits, losses, and wins. Many people overestimate their winnings and underestimate their losses. Data helps you stay honest with yourself.
- Balance gambling with other activities. If gambling is your only hobby or leisure activity, you're more vulnerable to developing problems. Maintain a balanced lifestyle.
Casino Tools for Responsible Gambling
Regulated casinos are required to provide responsible gambling tools. Here's what's typically available:
- Deposit limits: Set daily, weekly, or monthly caps on deposits
- Loss limits: Cap your losses over a defined period
- Session time limits: Automatic reminders or forced logouts after a set period
- Reality checks: Pop-up notifications showing how long you've been playing and your session profit/loss
- Cooling-off periods: Take a short break (24 hours to 6 weeks) from a specific casino
- Self-exclusion: Block yourself from a casino for a longer period (6 months to 5 years or permanently)
- Account history: Review your complete transaction and gaming history
Self-Exclusion Schemes
If you need to take a more serious step back, self-exclusion schemes can help:
- GamStop (UK): Free service that lets you exclude yourself from all UKGC-licensed online gambling sites for 6 months, 1 year, or 5 years — gamstop.co.uk
- State-level programmes (US): Each regulated state offers self-exclusion through its gaming commission
- Provincial programmes (Canada): Self-exclusion available through provincial regulators
- Individual casino exclusion: You can also exclude yourself from specific casinos through their responsible gambling settings
Where to Get Help
If you or someone you know is struggling with gambling, these organisations provide free, confidential support:
- BeGambleAware (UK): begambleaware.org — 0808 8020 133
- GamCare (UK): gamcare.org.uk — 0808 8020 133
- National Council on Problem Gambling (US): 1-800-522-4700 — ncpgambling.org
- ConnexOntario (Canada): 1-866-531-2600
- Gambling Help Online (Australia): 1800 858 858 — gamblinghelponline.org.au
- Gamblers Anonymous: gamblersanonymous.org — peer support groups worldwide
Reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. These services are staffed by trained professionals who understand what you're going through.
For Friends and Family
If you're concerned about someone else's gambling, it's important to approach the conversation with empathy rather than judgment. Here are some tips:
- Express concern without blame ("I've noticed..." rather than "You always...")
- Focus on specific behaviours you've observed
- Listen more than you talk
- Offer to help them find professional support
- Take care of your own wellbeing too — support services like GamCare also help affected family members
Gambling Should Be Fun
At its best, gambling is an enjoyable form of entertainment. Setting limits, being honest with yourself, and knowing when to stop are the keys to keeping it that way. Use the tools available, play within your means, and never hesitate to reach out for help if things start to feel out of control.
Need Help?
If gambling is causing you problems, please reach out to one of the support services listed above. Help is free, confidential, and available 24/7.